DIY Co-ed Baby Shower Ideas

Hosting a baby shower for a crowd? Check out these stress-free entertaining tips, menu ideas and baby shower games.


Photo by: Rennai Hoefer

Rennai Hoefer

Traditional baby showers have never really been my thing. Don’t get me wrong, I know we are all thrilled when someone we love will soon bring a new life into the world, but being forced to sniff or taste melted chocolate from a baby diaper or to watch mom-to-be open a hundred onesies isn’t everyone’s idea of a good time (mom-to-be included).

When I offered to host a baby shower for my sister’s first pregnancy, we knew we wanted to do something different. What followed was a successful and fun shower for the parents-to-be and the guests. Consider these tips when planning your next baby shower.

1. Keep It Casual

There is no reason that throwing a baby shower should be a headache. Keep the day easy by hosting a simple backyard barbeque. Allow guests to pop in whenever it fits their schedule and stay only as long as they like. Burgers and dogs on the grill are easy to prepare and gluten-free or vegan options are available.



Choose sides that can be made beforehand to limit the amount of preparation the day of the shower. We stuck with fresh vegetables, hummus, salsas and salads that were easy to whip up and satisfied all dietary needs. They also fared well sitting out for the length of the party. 

2. Make It Co-ed

It took two people to produce a pregnancy, so shouldn’t both parties be invited to celebrate it? Include the dudes and you’ll have extra sets of hands to setup and cleanup. It is also a great excuse to see all of your friends in the same place at the same time.

There are many co-ed baby shower invitations available. We settled on these great “BabyQ” shower invites by ElleOL Designs in pink, blue, or gender-neutral yellow, but you can even print your own invitations from home.

Free Baby Shower Invites

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Check out our free, customizable invites.  Just download, add the details, then print. Couldn't be easier!

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Make party planning a whole lot easier with our printable invites. Just download your favorite invitation, fill in the name of the mommy to be, add the date and place of the shower, then print and send. Download our feathers and arrows invite.

Book Worm

Stock-the-library showers are a great way for first-time, or second-time moms to add classic favorites to their baby's new collection. Download our literary invite.


Having twins? Triplets? You can't go wrong with one of these poker-inspired shower invitations.

Gender Reveal

The only thing more fun than finding out your baby's gender is finding out while surrounded by your closest friends and family. Invite them to the big reveal with this sweet invite.


Add a little steampunk flair to your baby shower with these cool industrial-style invites. Go mechanical-chic.

French Brunch

If elegant Parisian is the mom-to-be's style, download this chic invitation.


Rally your friends and family for a collegiate-style baby shower, full of pep. Try this preppy invite.

3. Bust Out the Booze

For those who like to kick back with a cold one on the weekend, a baby shower is no exception. In addition to having an assortment of beer outside by the barbeque, we set up a gorgeous indoor mimosa bar for guests to pick and choose their poison. Champagne along with orange, cranberry, and pineapple juices with fresh-cut fruit were provided for mixing. We even threw in a sangria option (thanks Bobby Flay!) for those that don’t dig champagne. The mimosa bar was so pretty that we hardly needed extra decorations for the shower, and mom-to-be could drink OJ without feeling left out. 

Mimosa and Sangaria Bar

Mimosa and Sangaria Bar

4. Embrace Minimal Decorations

Tons of time and energy could be spent crafting pink fluffy or soft blue baby shower decorations only to have them thrown away after the party ends. Why not keep décor stress-free by using functional items or things that can be reused after the shower as decoration? With our mimosa bar and menu bringing in tons of color already, we decided to pick up just a few items to spruce up the already beautiful Los Angeles home where the shower was hosted. We chose to bring in fresh spring flowers, balloons in a pale pink palette, and inexpensive tissue paper pompoms that hung like chandeliers from the arched entryways around the house. 

All baby shower gifts were laid out neatly unwrapped for guests to peruse. Everyone loves to look at cute, tiny baby gifts, but we eliminated the monotonous gift opening tradition while still allowing guests to find and chat about what they had given the expectant couple.

5. Make Games Opt-In Only

Nothing is worse than being forced to participate in a baby shower game that you aren’t interested in or just plain grosses you out (reference melted chocolate diaper game above). We chose only two opt-in games that didn’t take a lot of work and appealed to all members of the shower.

Baby Bottle Beer Chug

Baby Bottle Beer Chug

Our first game was the baby bottle beer chug. Bottles were filled a quarter of the way up and handed out to participants of the game. On “Go,” every last drop was sucked back until the first male and female finishers were awarded prizes. The baby shower prizes distributed were gift cards to popular eateries and coffee joints. Of course, the mom-to-be can’t participate, but ours enjoyed being the judge and handing out prizes. 

Baby Face Mash-Up

Baby Face Mash-Up

The second baby shower game was created over at using photos of the couple and their celebrity crushes. On the site, mom and dad-to-be’s facial features are extracted from their photos to make a baby face mash-up. The process is repeated with celebrity photos and the baby faces are lined up side-by-side. Participants must guess which face belongs to the future parents-to-be’s baby. 

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Game Instructions

Games are great way to get all of the guests involved and talking. Use these printable templates to help get the party started. Download the blue game instruction cards, download the green game instruction cards or download the pink game instruction cards.

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How Big is Her Belly?

All you need for this game is a roll of ribbon or string, scissors and the mom-to-be. Have each guest cut a piece of ribbon the length they think will wrap around her belly perfectly. Take turns measuring around her belly and the person with the closest length wins. Download the blue game instruction cardsdownload the green game instruction cards or download the pink game instruction cards.

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Guess Baby's Birthday

Have each guest write down the date and time they think the baby will arrive. Make sure they write their name too. After the birth, the guest who had the closest guess will win the prize. Download the blue guess-the-birth-date card, download the green guess-the-birth-date card or download the pink guess-the-birth-date card.

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Who is That Baby?

Have each guest bring a baby photo of themselves. Post the photos on a board along with a printed number. Throughout the shower, guests can study the board and take a guess at who is in each photo. Guest with the most correct guesses wins. Download the numbers to tag each photo and then download the game cards.

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Name that Movie Quote

Simply print a game sheet for each baby shower guest and hand out one to each, along with a pen. Have them keep the sheet upside down until you say "go"! Give them five minutes to figure out as many baby movie quotes as they can. Download the blue quote card, download the green quote card or download the pink quote card.

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Memory Game

Let's see which guest has the best memory. Fill a tray with small gifts for the new baby. Give each player a piece of paper and pen. Walk around with the tray, showing each guest what it is filled with. Once each guest has had the opportunity to study the tray, have everyone flip their paper over and write down as many items as they can remember. Guest with the most items wins.

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Baby Blanket Bingo

A fresh take on a classic game that everyone loves. Hand out a blank bingo card to each guest. Have them write in each space an item that they think the mom-to-be might receive at the shower. As the guest of honor opens her gifts, players mark off items on their card. First guest to get five in a row, wins. Download the blue bingo card, download the green bingo card or download the pink bingo card.

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Don't Say Baby

Everyone loves this game! As each guest arrives, have them clip one clothespin on her clothing somewhere. The name of the game is not to say the word, "baby". If someone says "baby", you can take her clip. The guest with the most clips at the end of the shower, wins. Dress up the clips with glitter and ribbon. Download the instruction cards for the black and white games.

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Word Challenge

Print a banner that spells out the baby's name, congratulations or other sentiment. Hang up the banner seated guests can see it. Give each guest a piece of paper and pen to write down as many words as they can using only the letters used for the banner. Give them two minutes to make their list. The guest with the most words wins. Download the blue alphabet banner, download the green alphabet banner or download the pink alphabet banner.

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Baby Words

Use our printable game sheet to test the guests' knowledge. Have everyone start at the same time and give them one minute to fill out as many baby-related words as possible, one per alphabet letter. Download the baby words game card.

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Guess How Many Gumballs

Not only does this game add an element of fun to the baby shower, but is also creates a pretty display. Fill a glass jar with gumballs and have the guests guess how many are in the jar. Download the guess-how-many-gumballs game.

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6.  Don’t Forget the Guest’s Family

Allow guests to bring their entire families to the baby shower, including those with fur. This makes it easy for people to attend as they won’t have to find child or pet care. You’ll also have tons of fun playing with the little ones (just make sure to walk your pets beforehand and clean up after them at the shower).

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