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Find tips on the best time of day to get married, optimum seating layouts, and how to properly time hair and makeup.

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Wedding expert Annie Lee knows how overwhelming it is to plan a wedding — particularly if you're doing lots of the work yourself. Annie, founder and principal planner for event planning firm Daughter of Design, is publishing a collection of tips, tricks and wedding lingo entitled "Learn to Speak Wedding: Flashcards for Beginners" that helps brides and grooms navigate the process.

"They're designed to be a good springboard for conversation about wedding topics," Annie says, "but they also include practical answers to questions most people have as they start to plan."

1. What time should the wedding be? For an evening wedding, Annie suggests looking up the time that the sun will set on your wedding day and work backward. "You want guests walking into a candlelit dinner as the sun is setting," Annie says. "The room should be getting dark so that you make a good first impression." Subtract an hour for cocktails and another hour for the wedding and you have your start time.

2. What's the right timing for hair and makeup? The bride should do a trial run several weeks ahead to see how fast her stylist works, and then set a schedule for each member of the bridal party who needs a turn. In general, allow the bride an hour and a half for makeup and an hour and a half for hair, with the aim of being done 30 minutes before the dress must go on. Adjust down to an hour apiece for bridesmaids, who should arrive 30 minutes before their scheduled slots.

3. How wide should the aisle be? If you're setting up your own space instead of using a church, be sure to consider how many people will be walking down the aisle at once and account for their size. "I had a bride who was accompanied down the aisle by both parents and her father was really large," Annie says. "The aisle was too narrow and we had to arrange them in kind of a triangle. It was awkward."

4. How many reception servers do I need? For a seated dinner, really good service allows one server per eight to 10 guests, although one server per 15 guests will do in a pinch. "Anything less than that,” Annie says, "and no one will get food." You'll also need one bartender for every 50 to 75 guests.

5. How much seating should I provide at cocktail hour? Lee likes to have enough seating for 15 percent to 20 percent of the guests. Each of those guests, by the way, will probably eat eight to 10 hors d’oeuvres.

6. How many chairs should there be per table? Round tables generally come in 60-inch and 72-inch diameters. For a 60-inch table, go with eight to 10 chairs maximum. “You can do seven, but anything less than that will look empty,” Annie says. A 72-inch table seats up to 12 people, but no fewer than nine. Rectangular tables are generally 8 feet long; people need two feet of width, so plan on four per side. "You can also put chairs at the ends, but it's less comfortable," Annie says.

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